What Can I Say?
Here's a page about my opinion on random things that's happening around us. I am warning you guys these are all my own ideas that I wanted to share to the world. If I have offended someone or mislabeled something or publish any wrong fact please let me know.
Anong mas gusto mo?
T O P I C # 1
Ano nga ba ang mas pipiliin mo? Isang maayos na bansa na pinamamahalaan ng mga dayuhan o isang magulong bansang pinamamahalaan ng iyong kababayan?
I got this question from It's Showtime's Miss Q&A episode. It was a timely question. Ang dami kasing nangyayari ngayon sa Pilipinas. Pero para sa isang simpleng mamamayan na tulad ko, ano nga bang mas gusto ko? Para sa akin, kung titingnan ang estado ng ating pamahalaan ngaun, mas pipiliin ko na lang ang isang maayos na bansa na pinamumunuan ng mga dayuhan. Oo, alam kong mali dahil maraming Pilipino ang nagbuwis ng kanilang buhay makamit lang natin ang kalayaan sa sarili nating bansa. Pero natatamasa ba natin ang totoong kalayaan sa mga nangyayari ngaun? Mismong mga kababayan natin ang nasa pamahalaan ngunit sila-sila rin ang nagtatalo-talo para sa kapangyarihan. Kapangyarihan na angkinin ang buong bansa at pasunurin ang mga tao ayun sa pansarili nilang kapakanan. Tayu-tayong mga Pilipino ang pumupuksa sa isa't isa dahil pakiramdam natin nalalamangan na tayo ng ating kapwa. Likas na yata sa atin ang crab mentality. Ilang taon na rin akong namulat sa kinagisnan nating gobyerno. Lahat nangangakong ititigil ang korupsyon pero kapag sila na ang nasa pwesto napapa-tameme rin sila ng kapangyarihan at karangyaan. May nagbago ba? Wala naman. Tila ba paulit-ulit lang ang mga problemang nararanasan ng ating bansa. Kaya panahon na siguro para buksan natin ang ating mga isip at subukan magpaubaya sa mga progresibong bansa. Baka sakaling ma-adapt natin kung ano mang mabuting pag-uugali at best practices ang meron sila nang sa ganun sa panahong kaya na nating ibalik ang pagkakaisa ng mga Pilipino saka natin ipaglaban muli ang ating bansa. Dati tayo ang hinahangaan ng mga kalapit bansa natin, ngayon napag-iwanan na tayo. Sana dumating uli ang panahon aangat din tayo at mag-kakaisa ang mga Pilipino na itaguyod ang ating bansa.
Note: This is purely my opinion. I have nothing against the government. But if I would be asked this question these are my thoughts.
Do you believe this?
T O P I C # 2
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Well, marrying would be the last thing on my mind right now. But I just like to remind all women out there that marrying is a serious thing. Forcing yourself to follow a set timeline (when we reached our 10th anniversary he has to propose) or age (I have to get married at the age of 25) to marry is not the right thing to do. It is a common thinking that women should marry before they reach the age of 30 because they will have a hard time going through pregnancy when they get older, but you do not have to stand on this. And pull all the strings just to get a guy to love you and pressure him to ask you to marry him when both of you are not ready yet. They used to say that "ang pag-aasawa hindi yan parang kanin na kapag napaso ka iluluwa mo." Believe them, they're right.
Marriage is a matter of choosing the right partner. When I say choose of course, not literally, because we could not dictate our hearts whom to love instead, choose or decide if your partner is worth all the love you can give. Many marriages have gone wrong. It is a sacred thing that two people should take seriously. So you have to give yourself a time to reflect. Is this the right person I want to spend the rest of my life? Is this the right person I want my kids to look like? Would he/she go through all the challenges with me? Is this really worth it? Because in reality marriage is not just about love.
It's better to wait long for the right person, or wait long until both of you are ready to take it to the married life. Do not take marriage as a pressure. Because being married does not define who you are.
